More Than This: Extended Orgasm & The Fountain of Youth | Genx Hits Menopause E18
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Episode Overview
In “More Than This: Extended Orgasm & The Fountain of Youth“ host Heather Reilly Hiemstra holds a high-voltage conversation with Alicia Davon, a leading expert in Tantra and tantric relationship coaching. Get ready to amplify your passion and ignite your inner rockstar, because this isn't your grandma's menopause talk.
Alicia and her husband Erwan have guided over 20,000 students through their unique Davon Method over the last two decades, blending psychology, Zen, and Tantra into a unique system that's hitting all the right notes for singles and couples worldwide.
Topics include:
- Dismantling Menopause Myths Challenging the belief that sensuality and attractiveness diminish with age, and how societal conditioning and busy lives can overshadow our inherent "sensual yumminess."
- The Power of Tantra Defining Tantra not as an esoteric concept, but as the art of cultivating presence in the body, especially in the "vital center" (hips, pelvis, genitals).
- Extended Orgasm as the "Fountain of Youth" A deep dive into the science and practice of extended, full-body orgasms, and how they contribute to well-being and a youthful glow.
- Solo Sensuality Exercises Practical, empowering exercises for women to reconnect with their bodies and pleasure independently, including "visiting dignitary," "visual inventory," and "tactile inventory."
- Partnered Practices for Deeper Connection Simple, non-sexual touch practices to foster intimacy and communication in relationships, moving beyond the pressure of penetrative sex.
- Bringing Men on Board The importance of loving invitation and education for men to understand and participate in this transformative journey alongside their partners.
About Alicia Davon
Alicia Davon is a leading expert in Tantra and Tantra Relationship Coaching, known for helping singles and couples ignite passion, deepen intimacy, and thrive in love. With an MA in Integral Psychology and a background in women’s pleasure and empowerment, Alicia began her career leading women’s groups focused on romantic and sexual expression.
For the past two decades, she has co-led the Davon Method with her husband Erwan, guiding over 20,000 students through retreats, group programs, and private sessions. Their holistic approach blends psychology, Zen, and Tantra into a unique and effective system of Tantra Relationship Coaching. Based in San Francisco and now teaching worldwide, Alicia is passionate about creating safe, transformative spaces where love and desire can flourish.
Learn more about The Davon Method
Episode Highlights
What's your skincare routine?
"I do dunk my face in a bucket of ice water every day, and other things ... but my real secret is extended orgasm. It's like the fountain of youth and it really brings all of those lovely endorphins and happy chemicals and youthfulness into the face."
So many women have some version of this story
"The big myth is that it gets worse as we get older, that we lose something, and that we just kind of have to get on board with that and accept it and accept, missing something that used to be here. And I mean, I talk to so many women every day, every week that have some version of this story and. It has a really dampening effect on our desire, our turn on our, our desirability, our feeling of attractiveness. There's just something about getting older that's looked upon as getting worse."
What Tantra is all about
"Tantra is not about having some esoteric understanding. It's about cultivating presence in the body, about really getting into your body and including what we call the vital center, which is the sex center, like your hips, your pelvis, your genitals, that whole part of you really bringing attention and focus into that."
We have a lot of sensual energy in our bodies
"When we have the hormonal shift moving into perimenopause, menopause, we've got these different feelings, heightened, emotionality, all of it ~ we just need to embrace and ride the wave and do what we need to do. This doesn't just apply to perimenopausal, menopausal, postmenopausal women, but all women. We have a lot of sensual energy in our bodies. And one thing that happens in relationships when that energy isn't acknowledged, enjoyed ~ really enjoyed ~ it can kind of go rancid into this ~ you just wanna pick a fight. You wanna just murder him. You wanna just kill someone. And when you start to address your sensuality and steady extended orgasm, or do these exercises that really put attention on sensuality, so much of that disappears."
it's a mental thing
"I've never met any woman that literally had, a physical inability to get turned on again or at all... it's a mental thing. It's a psychological thing."
