No one really warned us how much our bodies would change.
Not how hard it would be to stay asleep.
Not how quickly everyday movement could feel uncomfortable.
Not how intimacy could get complicated, even avoided.
No one really taught us how to support ourselves through these changes.
When we go looking for help, many of our options feel too clinical, too complicated or not even safe.
And doing nothing is not our best option!
Science shows us over and over that quality sleep, movement, intimacy & orgasm are essential building blocks of healthy, vibrant aging.
Trusted for generations. Confirmed by modern science.
Across many cultures and centuries, healers and elders have guided women from childhood to motherhood to wise womanhood with support from plants that nourish women through life’s hardest transitions.
Today, scientific research clarifies how certain plant compounds interact with our body’s own signaling networks to help with
- Vaginal dryness and tissue atrophy
- Daily irritation and sensitivity
- Painful intercourse or avoided intimacy
- Sleep disruption from temperature swings
- Mood volatility and daily stress overload
We formulated Rockstar Woman around these discoveries, combining real plants to work safely with your body in a simple-to-use topical oil.
Even we were surprised by the results.
Formulated for real life results.
Modern endocannabinoid science shows receptors ‘open’ to plant signals throughout our skin — highly concentrated in our sexual and reproductive tissues..
This makes topical application so effective & fast acting for so many women.
Massage 2–3 pumps of Rockstar Woman into your most intimate areas, especially after bathing and before/during intimacy. Repeat as you see fit.
That’s it.
No prescriptions. No schedule to remember.
No waiting weeks to see if it helps you feel better.
Just plants working together with your body in real time.
The Rockstar Woman Experience
Introducing Rockstar Blends
Founder Heather Reilly Hiemstra introduces Rockstar Blends, a modern plant-based apothecary.
Founder Heather Reilly Hiemstra introduces Rockstar Blends, a modern plant-based apothecary.
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Rockstar Woman FAQ
What is Rockstar Woman?
Rockstar Woman is a 100% plant-based topical body & intimate oil for women, crafted with full-spectrum hemp and terpene-rich botanicals. It’s designed to support everyday menopause wellness—helping ease vaginal dryness and discomfort, uplift mood, support better sleep, and amplify natural lubrication and pleasure. Use externally as a daily ritual or before intimacy. No chemicals, no preservatives, just clean, botanical confidence.
How does Rockstar Woman work?
The formula nourishes our endocannabinoid system (ECS), our master regulator that influences mood, temperature, sleep, lubrication, and arousal. Cannabinoids and terpene-rich botanicals interact with local ECS receptors in intimate tissues to encourage circulation, comfort, and relaxation while helping the body find balance. The result many users report: calmer nights, better moods, easier arousal, and more satisfying release—without psychoactive effects and without hormones.
What benefits can I expect?
With consistent use, many women report: (1) relief from vaginal dryness and greater comfort during intimacy; (2) enhanced sensitivity, arousal, and more powerful orgasms; (3) support for mood, stress, and deeper sleep; (4) a general feeling of balance and confidence through perimenopause and menopause. Because it’s topical and plant-based, you can integrate it into daily self-care rituals for steady, cumulative benefits over time.
Can it help with menopause symptoms like dryness, night sweats, and low desire?
That’s the goal. The oil hydrates and soothes intimate tissues to address dryness and discomfort, while ECS-supportive botanicals help the body regulate temperature and stress—useful for night sweats and sleep. By encouraging pelvic blood flow and relaxation, many users also experience renewed desire and easier, more comfortable intimacy. It’s a gentle, hormone-free approach to feeling like yourself again.
How do I use it for best results?
Make it a ritual. After bath or shower, massage a few pumps onto the vulva and surrounding areas (and anywhere it feels good) to support comfort and balance daily. Before intimacy, apply directly to clitoris, inner labia, and vaginal entrance 5–10 minutes in advance to boost lubrication, sensitivity, and ease. You can also use a small amount on pulse points to unwind. For external use only; start with a little and adjust to your body’s preference.
Meet Heather Reilly Hiemstra
The magic of live music and its possibilities of ecstatic transformation have inspired Heather in her journey since childhood, from professional actor to record industry scout, jeweler to blacksmith, alchemist to Rockstar Woman. Surviving postpartum colon cancer was the catalyst for Heather’s foray into formulating with pure plant botanicals ~ an intense desire to heal herself and keep her family healthy and well through all stages of life.
Heather believes, simply enough, that when we feel good, we can do good, and that the world needs more of that from all of us. Heather has been building the Rockstar Blends audience one relationship at a time with this message for over a decade. She is especially dedicated to helping the hundreds of women she’s met, and the millions more like them, who are desperate to have the conversation no one seems to want to have. How can I feel good as I age? How can I stay vibrant and sexy as my body changes through life? What can I use to help myself that’s truly safe to use?
Building these 100% plant-based formulations that help everyone feel so much better is just the beginning of Heather giving back for her second chance on life, for getting to be a wife and mom, for every comped ticket, every backstage pass, and every ecstatic, transformative moment life keeps sharing with her.