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Ylang Ylang
Known in folklore as the “flower of love,” ylang ylang has enchanted lovers in Southeast Asia for ages. In Indonesian weddings, its golden petals are strewn across the marriage bed, a symbol of love & fertility.
Modern research reveals a scientific basis behind the legend ~ inhaling ylang ylang’s sweet, floral oil can reduce blood pressure and foster calm, uplifted moods.
By soothing stress and anxiety, ylang ylang helps create the relaxed emotional space needed for deeper arousal and connection.

Vanilla
Vanilla has been used across cultures & centuries to kindle desire & romance. The Aztecs blended vanilla in a sacred cacao drink reserved for emperors & warriors, believing it boosted energy & passion.
In the Victorian era, vanilla was considered an aphrodisiac, used in perfumes, potions & desserts. Physicians prescribed vanilla in tonics to treat sexual 'dysfunction'.
Science today validates that just the smell of vanilla can generate dopamine in the reward pathways of our brain linked to memory and arousal ~ even (in one study) increased blood flow associated with sexual arousal.

Copaiba
In Bolivia and Columbia, copaiba has been a prized remedy for centuries. Indigineous healers use this golden balsam to fight inflammation, heal wounds, and comfort aches from deep within.
Copaiba is extremely high in beta-caryophyllene, a terpene with unique ability to activate the body’s CB2 cannabinoid receptors in much the same way as actual phytocannabinoids like THC & CBD.
CB₂ receptors are key modulators of our pain perception and immune response. Copaiba has been shown to influence these receptors as a natural anti-inflammatory and analgesic.

Sweet Orange
Both Traditional Chinese Medicine and Ayurveda rely on orange’s uplifting essence to ease tension, lift the spirit, & invigorate libido and arousal.
In clinical tests, orange essential oil aromatherapy significantly lowers levels of cortisol, a stress hormone that can cause inflammation & diminished libido and arousal.
Citrus oils like sweet orange have been shown to boost circulation and blood flow by positively influencing the autonomic nervous system, often a key part of reducing discomfort & rekindling desire.

The Science of Orgasm
Orgasm creates a neurochemical shift that affects far more than the moment ~ it leaves an imprint on how we relate to ourselves and others.
During climax, your brain releases a powerful cascade of neurotransmitters and hormones that regulate mood, relieve pain, and reduce inflammation. Oxytocin released during orgasm is especially potent—it helps lower cortisol levels, calm the nervous system, and strengthen immune defenses. Oxytocin also fosters emotional safety, trust, and stronger social bonds.
Studies show women who orgasm regularly experience better sleep, better skin, and improved health markers across the lifespan, likely because orgasm activates both the parasympathetic nervous system and the endocannabinoid system together to restore physiological balance.

Sex & The Endocannabinoid System
Our endocannabinoid system (ECS) governs mood, pain, inflammation, sexual function and more. The ECS has been shown to influence the effects of oxytocin and other neurotransmitters.
CB1 and CB2 receptors are found in the brain and the vulva, clitoris & vagina. Sexual arousal has been shown to trigger internal cannabinoid release, especially 2-AG and anandamide (“the bliss molecule”), to modulate pleasure, pain, and emotional presence.
Phytocannabinoids like CBD and certain terpenes like beta-caryophyllene have been shown to influence these receptors to reduce inflammation, improve blood flow in intimate areas and support positive sexual wellness outcomes like improved orgasm.

Orgasm Rx
Orgasms activate the body’s parasympathetic nervous system, promoting deep physiological recovery and 'vagal tone' ~ our body's ability to 'rest and repair' itself. Vagal tone is a known indicator of cardiovascular health, emotional well being and healthspan in general.
The vagus nerve is the connection from our root chakra/cervix/vagina directly to our brain. Functional MRI research confirms that vaginal–cervical stimulation to orgasm activates the vagal pathways ~ even bypassing spinal injuries.
Consider Immunoglobulin A (IgA), a frontline antibody found in saliva and mucous membranes essential to our body's ability to fend off everyday infections. One noted study from 2004 found that people having sex 1-2 times per week had significantly higher IgA levels than those who experienced no sexual intimacy in the same time periods.

Better Heath, Longer Life
Health care professionals often stress the importance of DHEA, a hormone associated with immune system function, brain health and glowing skin. DHEA levels decline as we age ~ but we produce it for ourselves through sexual arousal and orgasm.
In many cultures & mythologies, growing older is seen as an awakening, an ultimate fulfillment of self & purpose. Staying sexually active and engaged turns out to be essential to being here long enough to do so.
Research shows sexual satisfaction contributes to greater creativity, self-esteem, and productivity.. When we truly honor our pleasure in our daily habits and sacred rituals, we unlock the most vibrant energy source there is.

Better Relationships, Better World
Women who experience orgasm regularly report improved body image, stronger self-worth, and deeper satisfaction in their relationships ~ because oxytocin strengthens intimacy between partners and reinforces compassion for the self
Science shows that oxytocin and ECS work together to influence emotional state. When we’re sexually fulfilled, we feel less anxiety, more presence, and deeper human connection. This biological alignment makes us more available for joy, love, and one another.
When we say Feel good. Look good. Do good., this is what we mean. Profound intimacy becomes a gateway not just to better sex and better health, but to becoming most fully ourselves. We can reshape how we connect, lead, and live with each other ~ if we let us.

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